The Doctor Shares Some Insights on Good Lovemaking

I have spent years counseling couples on their relationship. Part of my work has included talking about the subject of sex. Through the years I not only have to learn how to share these thoughts but discover how to help couples improve their intimate relationships.

This article deals with the reasons as to why people need to engage in good sex if they plan on engaging at all;

1) For the feelings – good sex feels good. Yes it has a way of playing on our emotions. It invokes feelings that we are hard pressed to get anywhere else. As such when sex is good the feelings can be very hard to deal with.

2) You get to give pleasure to someone else – it is great to realize that you are a pleasure machine. This gives you a sense of satisfaction because you know that someone is going to bed and waking up smiling due to what you do to them. The smiles you see on their face make it worth it.

3) It is good for the heart – exercising is very important. So you can get an incredible workout by having vigorous sex.

4) It draws you closer to your partner – I know there are those who prefer to keep sex on a casual level. I don’t believe it is possible to keep a relationship casual when the sex is really good. As a man I don’t want a woman who is here today and gone tomorrow or worse yet, in the bed of another man a few days later.

5) Variety is the spice of life – nothing takes a sexual relationship to the next level faster than having a partner that is open to various positions. Sadly, many married people get so use to the same type of sex that they are not open to looking at the other possibilities.

I once told a husband and wife “consider one of the reasons men go to prostitutes. These women could care less about the man, only want his money and will be gone from his life forever with no second thought. Yet she tends to do the one thing a man in love with his wife cannot get her to do; she cooperates. He knows that he won’t hear the word no. Does this make it right? No. But is it a reality? Yes.”

Sex can be both good and rewarding. So make it both in your life.

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