Are you confused as to how to decode and fully understand male psychology? Does your guy tell you things that just don’t make any sense? Could he be hiding his true feelings in order to either manipulate or just appease you? There are several things to need to remember to understand how his mind works before you can learn how to change him. It is called decoding male psychology into female terminology.
1. He responds to accountability.
Men don’t usually hold themselves to a high standard for no reason. There must be accountability in his life for him to succeed. In his job, he will be motivated by his boss and the fear of being fired. In your relationship, he will be motivated by your behavior.
For example, think about a quality he has that is negative and that you would like to change. Then hold him accountable to that behavior by not covering for him, or helping him in any way in that area. Once he’s forced to face the music and stand on his own for something, he will stop taking you for granted and you will see a shift in the dynamics of your relationship.
2. He can use your emotions.
Don’t ever pout when you are trying to get your guy to do something. He will see you as whiny and immature and your entire plan of looking strong and capable will fail. Always keep your face content and stay matter-of-fact and business-like when having these discussions. Decoding male psychology is only possible when you can keep yourself separated away from his game-playing.
You need to let him know that he does not affect your emotions. Most men will gain strength when your emotions are affected. If you can keep your cool, or at least fake it, he will lose strength and feel less in control. This will lead him to a semi-dependence on you, which is the fast track to changing his behavior.
3. Pay attention.
Take many observations when you are together and you will soon be able to really figure out what is going on or what isn’t going on in his head and in his heart. Some guys might not even realize that the way they’re thinking and acting is too individualistic and not connected enough.
Give him a chance to respond to your positive and uplifting comments about how to be more connected as a couple. He will respond if you have taken the time to really understand him and he feels like he can trust you. Only then have you discovered the secret of decoding male psychology.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.
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